first, i broke your farm
second, take out that part about killing people more then 5 times no one on the server follows that.
third, ender pearls are a marvelous thing
First, that's a douche move and
invites everyone to hate you more than they already do.
Second, that rule is there because it is supposed to minimize douchebaggery, and is only supposed to be broken in self defense. But douchebaggery is your specialty it appears.
Third, enderpearls are also a douche item and you should never be allowed to touch one again.
Take a week off to rethink your ego, and your position in this server.