So I get a PM saying that someone should be banned or something, since he said "bye twat" or something stupid like that.
So I scroll up, see that the message came in 2 hours ago, look in my irc chat logs, and I see the following.
Note: I have removed irrelevant lines, like people logging in/out or talking about other things.
<PvPServer> Emolga_55 has entered the server
<BuildServer> <tymac222> hi
<PvPServer> jlagoas has entered the server
<PvPServer> jlagoas has left the server
<PvPServer> jlagoas has entered the server
<PvPServer> MYMOM105 has entered the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> hello
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Hi mymom
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Brb
<PvPServer> jlagoas has left the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> so emolga hows the gym goin?
<PvPServer> jlagoas has entered the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> wb
<PvPServer> jlagoas has left the server
<PvPServer> jlagoas has entered the server
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Ignored Emolga
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> y
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> He's annoying as @Ł$%
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> what happened
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> He called me a Ł%@$head
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> And he's saying sorry to me
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> jlagoas emolga said he's sorry
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> tymac u can have a look on the forums i posted it there
<PvPServer> Nave1001 has left the server
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Like I believe that kind of crap
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> oh hey guys
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> He SHOULD thought about it
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> looks like everyones gettin along
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> jlagoas emolga wants forgiveness
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I have said im sorry and if you wont accept that why should i keep trying
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Emolga
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> do not deny him
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> What
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Shut the hell up!
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> WTF
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ...
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> just ignored him
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> he was hacked?
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> and if you wont accept that I give up on you
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas you need to calm DOWN
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I am calm
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> i just ignored him you should too
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I have always been calm
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> lol
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> iv been calm the whole time i have said sorry
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> fuck
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> You are not calm if you are swearing!
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I give up on saying sorry to you for today jlagoas
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas lets talk more tomorow when you are calm
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas if i did not mean i was sorry i would have given up long ago
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas if i did not mean i was sorry i would have given up long ago
<PvPServer> jlagoas has left the server
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Wow like im suppoused to believe that Shit
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> fuck him im hiring a hacker
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I called him a dick-head and he raged
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> wow.
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ...
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Wow he needs to go to anger managmen
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> somone swears to me and i take it
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> i dont rage
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> i dont like swearign
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> XD
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold>
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> MrHeartGold i muted u for cursing
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> no more please
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> fine with me
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> it was a joke
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> i unmuted u now
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> it was a joke
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> so chill ya beans
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> XD
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> joke or not u still did it
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> but i forgive you
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ...
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> and now i forget
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> lol
<PvPServer> jlagoas has entered the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> im sorry what were we talking about?
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> i forgot
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> look whos back
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> yay jlagoas your back!
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> i unmuted u buddy
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> we r all very excited
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> yes we are
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> For what?
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> now we can eat cheeseburgers
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> That's nice
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> no jlagoas its not nice
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> u have made emolga commit suicide
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> its EPIC
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> That's nice
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> well done
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> As if I don't care that is...
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> If i didn't want his forgivness i would not have said sorry
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> i agree
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> so jlagoas is everything forgiven now?
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Just because...
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> bazinga
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> TBD Mymom
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas when somoen calls me a dick-head i just take it
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> whats tbd?
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> To Be Determined
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> XD
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> i dont have hate to any one with out a hard core reason
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> One word does not end the world
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> If you don't have to hate, why say it?
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> You need a strong mind to forgive
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> and if you cant forgive your mind is weak
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> At least it's not weak like yours, Emolga
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas this will go on no longer today
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> I have a heart and mind of stone
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ...
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> i care not about what somone says to me
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> You have a mind of a caveman, Emolga
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> i had 1 heart
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> insults will not work
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> I'm not insulting you
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> It's a point
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> no its not
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> if you had a strong heart/mind you would forgive me
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> if emolga had a mind of a caveman then he would not know how to play this game
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> it takes strength to forgive
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> true
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> What did I miss? I was AFK...
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> bullshit
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> and i am suppoused to believe that
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> kewl
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ahh
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas it takes strength to forgive and more strength to know when to stop
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> kkya
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold>
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Oh, shut up
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Unfortunataly you cant tell me what to do
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> if u were her with me i would use my kung fu on ya
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> here*
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> I'm not telling what to do
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> i saw ya hiding that axe
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Saying shut up is telling somone to shut up
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> No it's not
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> yes it is idiot
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ppprrreeaaahhh
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> fak
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Telling people to shut up means that they want that person to shut up because they're annoying
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> XD
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ur annoying
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> sure
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> As if...
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> come here
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> XD
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> You know...
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> I wish an admin was online
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> same
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> y jlagoas
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> i cant think straight
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> So he can ban MrHeartGold and Emolga_55 for enternity (Or a couple of days)
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> y should we get banned?
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> ik
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> i was tying
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> typing*
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Annoying, insulting
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> im never getting banned from this server jlagoas
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> *Sigh* if only he knew when he had crossed the line
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold>
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> well i gtg now so bye
<PvPServer> <MrHeartGold> bye u fucking twat jlagoas
<PvPServer> MrHeartGold has left the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> wow
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> Mrheartgold didn't know that I've screenshotted it
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas you are more likely to get banned
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> How?
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> you post it and il post all that crap you said
<PvPServer> <jlagoas> As if...
<PvPServer> jlagoas has left the server
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Jlagoas you are treading a thin line
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> i need to go i need to stop my adrenalin rush
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> ok bye
<PvPServer> Emolga_55 has left the server
<PvPServer> Emolga_55 has entered the server
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> wb
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> Btw that asshole jlagoas
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> is the adrenallin rush gone
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> his name is michael fernades
<PvPServer> <MYMOM105> wow
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> he is lucky im not going to hire a hacker
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> his internet is safe ... for now
<PvPServer> <Emolga_55> brb gotta eat food
Now, in my eyes, all 3 of you drama queens are in the wrong. We've got people bringing their drama into the server, calling names, implying caveman brain, threatening to hack others, assuming they can't be banned (and then proceeding to threaten to hack someone)
What exactly should I do with these clueless members of the community? Obviously they all need some kind of straightening out, including the one who sent the PM.
This loss of self-control is why cyber-bullying is a thing. Get a grip on your emotions or get the fuck off the internet.