Also you shouldn't just quit on a dime. Let the server know before hand, wait a few weeks, and then leave. I know when I left the minecraft portion of the server I announced a month before hand, held an auction for my stuff for two weeks, which Lucas won, but he never picked up the stuff so I don't remember who has all my shit now. Then I proceeded to just dick around for a little bit before leaving. I am still active on the forums mostly because I like the community on the server, but just leaving the minecraft part because you feel you have an obligation you no longer want doesn't mean you have to leave everything on the server.
